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    "title": "Married (Happily) With Issues",
    "author": "pmjones",
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    "html": "<blockquote>\n<p>In psychiatry, the term \u00e2\u0080\u009cgood-enough mother\u00e2\u0080\u009d describes the parent who loves her child well enough for him to grow into an emotionally healthy adult. The goal is mental health, defined as the fortitude and flexibility to live one\u00e2\u0080\u0099s own life -- not happiness. This is a crucial distinction. Similarly the \u00e2\u0080\u009cgood-enough marriage\u00e2\u0080\u009d is characterized by its capacity to allow spouses to keep growing, to afford them the strength and bravery required to face the world.</p>\n</blockquote>\n<p><em>via <a href=\"http://www.nytimes.com/2009/12/06/magazine/06marriage-t.html?pagewanted=all\">Married (Happily) With Issues - NYTimes.com</a>.</em></p>\n"
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