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    "title": "A Good Person, Making Bad Choices? Wrong.",
    "author": "pmjones",
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    "html": "<blockquote>\n<p>... \"I want to learn why I am this way.\"\u00c2\u00a0 Then what?\u00c2\u00a0 Will learning why you made those choices be what changes your choices?\u00c2\u00a0 You're still eating junk food, aren't you?\u00c2\u00a0 You're eating it while you're learning\u00c2\u00a0 how bad it is.\u00c2\u00a0 </p>\n<p>\"But... why am I this way?\"\u00c2\u00a0 That question is a narcissistic defense.\u00c2\u00a0 It doesn't want an answer, it wants you to keep asking the question.</p>\n<p>\"I'm a good person, I just am making bad choices.\"\u00c2\u00a0 Wrong.\u00c2\u00a0 You're not a good person until you make good choices.\u00c2\u00a0 Until then you are chaos.</p>\n</blockquote>\n<p>Via <em><a href=\"http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2012/02/my_fiancee_is_pushing_me_away.html\">The Last Psychiatrist: \"My fiancee is pushing me away and I've lost hope\"</a></em>.</p>\n"
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