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    "title": "On Being a Good Man",
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    "html": "<blockquote>\n<p>When you ask men about what makes a real man, a lot of them will get up on their high horses and start talking about\u00c2\u00a0what it means to be a good man.</p>\n<p>\u00e2\u0080\u009cA real man would never hit a woman.\u00e2\u0080\u009d</p>\n<p>\u00e2\u0080\u009cA man who doesn\u00e2\u0080\u0099t spend time with his family can never be a real man.\u00e2\u0080\u009d</p>\n<p>\u00e2\u0080\u009cA real man takes responsibility for his actions.\u00e2\u0080\u009d</p>\n<p>\u00e2\u0080\u009cA real man pays his debts.\u00e2\u0080\u009d</p>\n<p>\u00e2\u0080\u009cReal men love Jesus.\u00e2\u0080\u009d</p>\n<p>However, if you ask the same men to list their favorite \u00e2\u0080\u009cguy movies,\u00e2\u0080\u009d many of them will include films like The Godfather,\u00c2\u00a0Scarface, Goodfellas, and Fight Club.</p>\n</blockquote>\n<p>The point is not \"hypocrisy\" but \"what men have been told should be appealing, vs. what they actually find appealing.\"<br>\nvia <em><a href=\"http://goodmenproject.com/the-good-life/freedom/on-being-a-good-man-2/\">On Being a Good Man -- The Good Men Project</a></em>.</p>\n"
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