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    "href": "/post/2012/12/10/how-to-behave-at-a-funeral/",
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    "title": "How To Behave At A Funeral",
    "author": "pmjones",
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            "title": "General",
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    "created": "2012-12-11 02:58:00 UTC",
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        "2012-12-11 02:58:00 UTC"
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    "html": "<blockquote>\n<p>I understand funerals can be awkward for those not directly grieving, but over-exaggerating your pretend sadness is of no benefit to anyone, it merely obligates the survivors to manage your fake concern.\u00c2\u00a0 If you feel compelled to speak in all caps or explain how terrible this all is to a person who knows first hand and way better than you how terrible it all is, don't.\u00c2\u00a0 Stay home.\u00c2\u00a0 When you find yourself in the presence of mourning, simply say,\u00c2\u00a0 \"I'm sorry for your loss.\u00c2\u00a0 If there's anything I can do for you, please let me know,\" and if he happened also to have been a great man you can add, \"he was a great man,\" then bow your head and fade to back.\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 That's all that's necessary.\u00c2\u00a0 The system will take care of the rest.</p>\n</blockquote>\n<p>via <a href=\"http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2012/12/funeral.html#more\">The Last Psychiatrist: Funeral</a>.</p>\n"
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